You put the fear there though. All my life my family and friends put bad faces on being gay, but when I came out they all kinda cooled down and were cool with it. "gay" is still used a an insult but more just because they are used to saying it that way than because they actually think so. I even call people gay when I'm mad at them sometimes. Don't be afraid, a good family won't put you out and a good friend won't put you down.
Well, tell one friend that you trust cumpletely, then as you get more confidence tell more people, then word will spread and u will just have to answer questions rather than bringing it up.
Well, I told my friend that I was bi, and he was okay with it, since he wasn't the friend of mine that I like. Then, the other day, he said that he was literally scared almost to death. He said his hands were shaking and stuff, just because I was bi. I successfully lied to him, and passed it off as a joke. I can't tell the guy I like because my friend that I "joked", would find out and be uber-pissed. Also, I practically know that my friend that I like isn't gay/bi, and I would be disowned as a friend, much less as a boyfriend. I need some advice....>_>
OK, if the friend can't accept you no matter how or what u R then wut kind of a friend is he??? U know I'm startin 2 think BFF doesn't mean much these days, every1 gets pissed at each other but less and less people are working to make it better. Sux.
Ya, he was a real dick to me at the end of this school year. He didn't even hang out with me at the end. And if anyone is curious, I am in fact bi, not gay, because I like seeing boobs and dicks. W/E, I suppose....
You know, what if he is as well, and he's avoiding me because of it? Hmm....Improbable, but plausible.....He fervently says he's straight though.
On a side note, he and I remind me of Sasuke and Naruto.....>_> Obviously not counting the yaoi (even though I wish it would happen to me.....).