I'm sorry if this isn' the right place to put this forum.
I really want to talk to my ex boyfriend. We've been separated for 7 months now. We were real mad when we broke up, but a little later we talked and we dont have any grudges against each other now.
We just started back to school and I want to talk to him there but im afraid for more than one reason:
i don't want him to get the impression that i want to be in a relationship with him again
i have classes with him and my friends and i'm afraid if i say anything to him i will get questioned a lot or vice versa with him and his friends.
i don't know if he likes someone right now and i don't want him to think im just in the way.
i'm afraid of what he might say or what his reaction may be when i speak to him. (he may not even want to talk to me)
i don't want to make a complete fool out of myself, because people say its better to just not talk to your ex's, but i think it's ridiculous, and people from school will probably talk about us or something..
and lastly, i myself, don't know what to say or do to start a little conversation.
I'm so bad at seeing other girls and thinking of situations where he meets them and they end up together, so I feel like there isn't any hope for me anymore, even if we are only good friends. Good friends is all I could ever ask for from him. That would be the best thing in the world to get my best friend back and just leave out the bf/gf part.
If anyone could give me some advice on how I should go along with speaking to him, or if i should even do it at all, i will be forever grateful.
Oh and thanks for reading this, I would have never had the patience of reading so much!!!
I really want to talk to my ex boyfriend. We've been separated for 7 months now. We were real mad when we broke up, but a little later we talked and we dont have any grudges against each other now.
We just started back to school and I want to talk to him there but im afraid for more than one reason:
i don't want him to get the impression that i want to be in a relationship with him again
i have classes with him and my friends and i'm afraid if i say anything to him i will get questioned a lot or vice versa with him and his friends.
i don't know if he likes someone right now and i don't want him to think im just in the way.
i'm afraid of what he might say or what his reaction may be when i speak to him. (he may not even want to talk to me)
i don't want to make a complete fool out of myself, because people say its better to just not talk to your ex's, but i think it's ridiculous, and people from school will probably talk about us or something..
and lastly, i myself, don't know what to say or do to start a little conversation.
I'm so bad at seeing other girls and thinking of situations where he meets them and they end up together, so I feel like there isn't any hope for me anymore, even if we are only good friends. Good friends is all I could ever ask for from him. That would be the best thing in the world to get my best friend back and just leave out the bf/gf part.
If anyone could give me some advice on how I should go along with speaking to him, or if i should even do it at all, i will be forever grateful.
Oh and thanks for reading this, I would have never had the patience of reading so much!!!