Talk to him about it

im 16 and my dads still like this. dont bother thinking about it too much. its not worth it in the end. he will either let you or wont let you and nothing you say or do can change that.

I think you should talk to him about it and tell him that you know he is only watching out for you because he loves you but a 13 year old girl needs a bit of freedom.

Well you definatly have to talk to him about it, and choose a time when he is relaxed!! Have a plan about where you are going, who is going, times, ect. Show him you have thought it through and let him have some control over a curfew. Maybe say i'll do a chore (or something) if you will let me go out for half an hour (or another amount of time.)
Hope that helps.

Do you have a cell phone or way for him to contact you? thats how i was allowed more freedom. because when ever my parents wanna check up on me they call... its a lot better then not being able to go anywherer

My dad used to behave like that a year ago. I think he was afraid that I might do something inappropriate. That's what my mother told me when I asked her why dad never let me stay somewhere as much as I wanted to stay there. I was always first to leave when I went out with my friends. And then I had a conversation with my dad, and explained him some things. He knows he can trust me now. And I can go everywhere now. Well, not exactly everywhere, but I wouldn't go to some places even if he let me.

Both my parents are like your dad and I'm 14. Oh how this sucks. The most I can do is go to my backyard. Amazing. Just... such a refreshing experience, so full of fun and amazement I can not wait to do it again.

Bring your friends over to your house to show your dad how responsible your friends and you are. Then sit him down for a one-on-one talk with just you and your dad—then tell your dad you're turning thirteen (or are you?) and that you are going to be a teenager and that you know how responsible you are and that he should be able to fully trust you. My dad is like yours, he wants me to call him whenever I go out, and if I don't, he'll give me five hours worth of lecture. But seriously, talk to your dad about organizing a plan that have you call him every hour or so, whenever you're with your friends. Or some sort of plan that will satisfy you and your dad.

If talking doesn't work, then take matters into your own hands. Dad doesn't want to let you go to KFC to eat the yummy chicken!? GO ANYWAY! The worst he can do is beat you.

*DryIce* wrote:

I don't rebel against my Dad. It end up in me vgetting a computer ban,gamecube ban,nintendo ds ban,Dvd player ban,stereo ban, 3 hour lecture and grounded. And I don't want that to happen on my birthday.

Lol, I can *again* relate. Except for the stereo part. My computer IS my stereo

Well if he puts bans on everything, use those items anyway. And if he takes them away, find them. And if he throws them away, remind him that he probably spent all that money on the shit and threw it all away, unless you paid for the stuff. And if he throws it away anyway, well how's he going to punish you? Now you can do whatever the fuck you want. Including going to KFC and eating the yummy chickens.

he could choke the chicken