Well.. not "everyone" is such a panzy. However, I will agree that a few people who post here seem to be the typical "nice guys" and most of the time girls never ask a guy out.

Because some people just need a small bit of guidance to be a cut above the rest. That's part of the reason why people come here. :)

That is true, but I mean what is the worst that can happen, all they will say is no.

Some people have a lot of confidence, and others don't. I wouldn't say the advice is sugar coated, but what I aim to do is provide some options or idea's that maybe someone hasn't thought of before, and hopefully that will help. It's more holding someone by the hand and encouraging them, and we all need that sometimes.

Better question...

Why do you care?

Because people are shy and not everyone is outgoing and open.

artemis_samhain wrote:

Because people are shy and not everyone is outgoing and open.

I second that. But there are also outgoing+open people who want advice so as to be a cut above the rest, as I said earlier. :)

Everyone has different situations, and this isn't always about asking someone out, it's about what to do IN a relationship.

Do you have a girlfriend?

Look the point of this forum is to help people get through certain situations dependent on their relationship. It doesn't have to be asking someone out it can be love tension or problems in a relationship. I agree with you in saying just do it, get over it, or solve it directly but other people need certain ways to deal with their problems. Otherwise people could shop their sadness away >.>

Ditto. If this particular thread bothers you, why not go elsewhere instead of attempting to impress people with your macho, un-empathetic crap.

why does this matter?????

x2 why does it matter so much to you?

........After reading all i can do is laugh.

cause some times life isnt tht fckin simple