How to Tell if a Friend Like You

    • How to Tell if a Friend Like You

      I have a work friend, let's call him Bob. Bob and I have known eachother for 3 years, but we don't talk much, because I have liked him since the moment I saw him. When I see him it's as if all the words I've ever known just disappear from my vocabulary.

      Bob is a very outgoing person, and every girl at work likes him.

      He recently got a number from a girl at work who happens to be another work friends cousin, and Bob's best friend. Let's call the new girl Jane.

      Jane had also recently got mad at Bob for not asking her out. (This is what Bob told me). I asked Bob why he didn't ask her out and he said it was because Jane is his best friends cousin. I'm not convinced.

      When I'm around Bob and the group outside of work he hardly ever talks to me and never flirts with me, although he flirts with every other girl.

      I've finally gained enough courage to tell Bob I like him so I need some opinions! Do you think he likes me too, or is this going to be a train wreck waiting to happen?