is it ok to completely abandon all reason and sanity and disregard everything you beleive in just because you are horny?....

i have a girlfriend... i love her... but when i get horny i cant help myself.. im bi, and though i havent done anythihng in a while i get off over guys more often than not... its just making me sick of sex... sick of thinking of it, sick of acting on it... and its starting to depress me... on top of it all... my best friend (female) keeps making me horny and then asking me to have sex with her... and beleive me, when someone asks you it isnt easy to say no... but i cant say yes... i refuse to... but its taking all my efort to... which makes me wonder... do i realy love my girl?...

does love have to be connected to sex? is it important to respect your partner?... ive always beleived the answer was yes... i just dont know anymore...

so.. im confused... im sick of sex, because all it leaves me with is regret and remorse and the only friend i trusted with talking to did nothing but make it worse...

help?

thanks...

Heatherbby wrote:

Problem solved.

well i dont know about that... but my questions are answered

hey, hey, hey... i havent done anything...
just powerful, wrong thoughts...

oh and about the bi thing... she doesnt realy approve that much.. she says its fine... but she doesnt treat t that way...

why cant love and lust be completely separate..?