I am writing this up for a bit of advice, if possible :)
Ok, basically, going back to the sexuality discussion again..i just want to know about something. I think i am getting myself into a mess over the whole situation, i dont understand my mind at the slightest, it seems to change like instantly. One minute im totally un attracted to guys, then another minute i feel i really fancy someone imparticular. But what so confuses me is the fact of not knowing what to do in this situation. I know im obviously not gay, but i still feel bisexual. I know i am that and the problem is, i would obviously prefer a gf to a bf. However i met a guy that i kinda like , that i may give a relationship a go with. But i still feel this is not enough for me. If i go out with a guy, i will want a gf too. Does anyone else feel this way?? I am going to try to get into a community with people that are exploring their sexuality in september, but isit normal to be in a relationship with both a guy and a girl at the same time? I would love to be with a girl, but with a boy also...having a relationship with a guy is probably fine, but i also want to have a gf at separate times...both on the same go. But i dont know if this is natural:S I mean one minute i feel im gay, one minute im totally against guys or non attracted to them at all, thenanother minute im fine with them. Im totally confused!

Problem is, hes straight. He knows im bi though.

what?
Im not sure whether he would like me dating a guy and seeing him too though. Im stuck on what to do in this situation.

whoops sorry...wasnt thinking then, dont know why i put that LOL!

edit: girl

But in your eyes, do you think its normal to do it?

I wouldnt never go off with another guy at the same time, i would never two time. But what i would do is be with a girl aswell..because one wouldnt be enough for me. I just wandered whether this was wrong though.

I feel it now..its like all mixed feelings. I dont know why i get this mixed up signal in my head about "sexuality", its so annoying, i cant even focuss straight on it because i am confused with it lol

did you get in with a member of the oposite sex or the same?

you mean you once wanted a member of both sexes in a relationship with?

so you mean i could happen to become off straight after i tried it with a girl?
Well that could be true, i could just realize i wanted a close friendship only. There is certain women i have come across which i wouldnt say no to dating though...some i feel extremly comfortable around, enough to have a relationship with them, enough to fall in love with them too. some just completely get me attracted/secure around them...thats why i say if i was straight i wouldnt feel i wanted to be with people. certain women have the perfect personality for me though..mor so than boys.