i've been out on a few dates but when i'm with a girl it's very real and i can't tell what i feel. i've had a crush on a few girls but i never said anything. that i knew but it was also in my head.
so when i'm around girls my brain shuts down or something. it's real. i'm just there and i don't really feel anything. is it supposed to be that way? do you go out more than a few times and like someone? it's like a deer in highlights thing i think.
should i like a girl first without saying anything and then ask her out? or should i ask a girl out without feeling anything except thinking she's ok and i'll see what happens? that seems a little unfair to her too.
so when i'm around girls my brain shuts down or something. it's real. i'm just there and i don't really feel anything. is it supposed to be that way? do you go out more than a few times and like someone? it's like a deer in highlights thing i think.
should i like a girl first without saying anything and then ask her out? or should i ask a girl out without feeling anything except thinking she's ok and i'll see what happens? that seems a little unfair to her too.