if you like her enough, it shouldnt matter how far away she is. it depends on if you think the relationship will last/work. i think its wort h it, as she isnt far away. but its your choice.

I did this once, but i found it too hard knowing as i couldnt see the person much. But my opinion is, that yuo may just find someone within your area.

yes but if you make the effort to visit her and she makes the same amount of effort to visit you and you arrange visits and stuff. then there is no reason why it shouldnt work unless you cant be arsed

does it not depend on the distance though?

well yes but you can still work at seeing each other as much as you possibly can.

suppose so, in the same country?

if she's a cutie and you would get to see her a few times a month, I think it could be ok.

an hour isnt bad, if you think you can trust her during the week, and you luv her enough to make the effort to go see her and he see you then go for it.

I don't think we can make this decision for you.
If you like her enough, and think your relationship can survive being away from each other like that, than go for it.

Mine was an 8 hour trip away, so I really wouldn't have anything against this. You can easily arrange to meet each other, even though it would take a while. But be glad to know that you still can see her in person if you wanted to, especially if you can drive yourself. I had to take an expensive bus trip to do it. I would be grateful if someone was less than a 2 hours drive away. Then I wouldn't have to make special arrangements.

my bf doesnt live in my town and were like 6 months together...so, its worth it.

If you want it to work it will, i mean my parents didn't even live in the same country, they had to get a plane to see each other. Other people find the distance too much so it's all down to how you feel about it. No-one else can decide.

im in a long distance relationship with a girl in england atm.
i love it, its great, i dont think of the fear of her cheating on me or me on her, i love how we dont 'think' about sex since were far away, but how we can stay up all night on the phone, talking about everything a human mind can conceve.

Shes coming over to the US in december to stay for christmas with me then im goin over to england next summer to stay with her in Bath. The anticipation is killing me

As long as you're willing to put your trust in her, you won't cheat on her, she trusts you, and you're emotionally ready for a long distance relationship, there's no reason not to. Especially since you got lucky and she's only an hour away, it should be fine.

~Maggot

my bf n i live bout 5hours drive away from each other n v take turns to visit each other n i think it's worth trying coz when u actually saw ur partner u will learn to appreciate them as u can't see them often.
gd luck

If you really think it will work, then go for it.
If you don't try then u will never know if it would have worked out.

Well to me, it's worth it to stay with a guy who lives a few states away. So I don't see why only an hour or so away should be a problem

I don't think the distance should make a difference. For some people it will, which will make the relationship have a lot of difficulties. But if you choose to date her while she's in a different town, you need to put effort into it. Trust me, from being in a relationship with a guy 3 states away, it'll be tough. But you guys only have an hour distance...

ok people... this is one question that i think about over and over and the answer still is.... longs distance will NEVER work... i know i may sound negative or whatever but, don't fool yourself u may think.. sure he's gr8, i love him and distance don't matter, but actually u have noo i idea what he's really up 2... not all, but most guys, they'll have another girl on their side. this is the thruth.. coz, i've had like 3 long distance relationships and they all ended badly. Why on earth would u want someone far away from u when u can have someone close... thats what a relationship is.. sharing things loving eachother.. not talking on the phone moping bou how u miss eachother... long distance is only wonderfull anf fun for a while... so if u do have a bf or gf on the other side of your continent.. just don't get attached, find someone close 2 u.