bad news wrote:

That's not legal. Call the police, or at least threaten your mother with reporting the crime. Child abuse, reckless endangerment, and assault with a deadly weapon will put her behind bars for a long time. Make sure she knows that. I'm afraid with a mother like that, you're going to need leverage. You now have the power to put your mother in jail, make sure she understands that. Try talking to her again and inform her of this. If she doesn't listen, call the police. Its one thing to get whipped once or twice, but this is outrageous and out of control. Your mother should be ashamed of herself.

So like I said, tell her she has one more chance to get her act together or else you will be forced to go to the authorities.

Emma14 wrote:

Me and my little sister got strapped by Mom the other day after getting caught in a lie about something that happened at school. We'd been "picking" on another girl at school and the school found out and gave us both a note to take home to mom, but we hid it neither of us said anything or gave it to her but the school called home to check she'd got the note..thats when we were found out... (I feel sorry about it now) and she was waiting for us when we got home. We probably deserved to get punished but I think I'm (and maybe my sister) too old for this kind of treatment ..we should have been grounded or something??? - I'm 14 and she's 13.

Mom totally lost it and told us to wait whilst she got one my Dad's belts We both ended up holding our knees and mom strapped our butts really hard with the belt ...she was really doing a number on our asses, (my ass was on fire) We were both yelling as we got smacked it was difficult to keep my balance and try and rub my butt but not get my hand whacked at the same time It was real embarrassing especially in front of my younger sis (although she was yelling too) It wouldnt have been so bad if she'd just smacked us once or twice but she kept going till we was screaming ...I was in tears and sore and uncomfortable for the rest of the day.

I've felt the belt (and a cane once) on my ass a few times growing up but not as bad as this time and feel like I'm too old for it now , I'd be deverstated if any of my friends found out and I'm sure my sister would be too ...I've tried talking to Mom and she said we been strapped and not lost our mobiles or laptops because what we done left her no choice but to wallop our bottoms (shes from England and has these weird sayings) she said she'd thought long about what to do before she smacked us but we'd gone too far this time or something like that.

What should we do now ...neither of us wants to feel that belt again but Mom wont listen?? :eek:

Giggity wrote:

I agree with MVP. (Condom). As much as she hits you, I don't think you want to be sent to a foster home. And that's where you'll end up.

Emma14 wrote:

Me and my little sister got strapped by Mom the other day after getting caught in a lie about something that happened at school. We'd been "picking" on another girl at school and the school found out and gave us both a note to take home to mom, but we hid it neither of us said anything or gave it to her but the school called home to check she'd got the note..thats when we were found out... (I feel sorry about it now) and she was waiting for us when we got home. We probably deserved to get punished but I think I'm (and maybe my sister) too old for this kind of treatment ..we should have been grounded or something??? - I'm 14 and she's 13.

Mom totally lost it and told us to wait whilst she got one my Dad's belts We both ended up holding our knees and mom strapped our butts really hard with the belt ...she was really doing a number on our asses, (my ass was on fire) We were both yelling as we got smacked it was difficult to keep my balance and try and rub my butt but not get my hand whacked at the same time It was real embarrassing especially in front of my younger sis (although she was yelling too) It wouldnt have been so bad if she'd just smacked us once or twice but she kept going till we was screaming ...I was in tears and sore and uncomfortable for the rest of the day.

I've felt the belt (and a cane once) on my ass a few times growing up but not as bad as this time and feel like I'm too old for it now , I'd be deverstated if any of my friends found out and I'm sure my sister would be too ...I've tried talking to Mom and she said we been strapped and not lost our mobiles or laptops because what we done left her no choice but to wallop our bottoms (shes from England and has these weird sayings) she said she'd thought long about what to do before she smacked us but we'd gone too far this time or something like that.

What should we do now ...neither of us wants to feel that belt again but Mom wont listen?? :eek:

marco17 wrote:

I'm sorry but this is really quite simple ...you two are bullies, you got caught had your bottoms walloped as you deserved!! and now your complaining about getting smacked by Mom???

Maybe she felt like you needed to be treated like children or to feel the same humiliation as the girl you bullied or picked on (same thing)?? What you think about that??? fair play to your Mom I say :cool: I hope dad decides to reinforce the message ...mine would ....your only 14 and 13 ...its not unusual for kids that ages to get their asses whacked every now and again and I doubt your the only girls in your school who get their bottoms walloped (as your mom says) at home.

Also your Mom said she thought long and hard about 'walloping your bottoms' so its not like it was some random beating ...just a good old fashioned hidding that you both deserved ...hopefully it will happen again if you behave the same way again and bully someone else !!!


So in the words of nelson from the Simsons "Haha" you got your bottoms smacked, your sore, sorry and embrarressed sounds like it got your attention ...I salute your Mom ..she did not overreact!!!

DR.Hamza wrote:

if only you people know what is it to get beaten