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I hate talking on the phone, but my relationship is awesome.


Dump him if you're not happy.

talk to him about it, and if he still doesnt talk on the phone or whatever and u still dont think it will work dump him, there is no point in being in a relationship ur not happy with

did you ever ask him why he's not chatty with you? maybe he's just not a chatty person?

I don't really like talking on the phone either, I prefer doing it through IM or in person. I can never think of what to say on the phone. Why not talk to him about it though? He might just be afraid of awkward silences or saying something embarassing or something of that sort. But the best thing to do is communicate with him. Don't dump him until you find out WHY he doesn't like talking on the phone.

Maybe hes just quiet and u have to start a conv. first?

I am not a major phone person either.
I don't think he is unhappy in the relationship just because he won't give you a phone call.

Phone calls are troublesome and frusterating.. you deal with a lot of this:
"What?" "I can't hear you?" "Can you repeat that last bit?"

So maybe he does prefer person.

is he nice in person? i hate talking on the phone. but if you LOVE the phone, more than him, it probably won't work out.
if he's weird in person too, maybe he is just shy with you or something.. how long have you been together for? he may change.

A lot of guys hate the phone man, i hate it myself, i use to think i was phonephobic, but i just hate talking on the phone, and usually my parents would want to know who im talking to and listen to my calls. I know one of my friends whose a girl whos boyfriend who wont talk to her and shes been crying heaps lately.

Angelwings411 wrote:

I am not a major phone person either.
I don't think he is unhappy in the relationship just because he won't give you a phone call.

Phone calls are troublesome and frusterating.. you deal with a lot of this:
"What?" "I can't hear you?" "Can you repeat that last bit?"

So maybe he does prefer person.

Agreed.