Ok so my best friend who has pretty much been the person who I have loved the most for years slept at my house the other night in my bed after we had had a night out. I climbed in because, well, It's my bed and I sleep there. Not long after after having slept for a little bit we both wake up a little and end up having sex for a while. It was amazing. It was something that I would never thought would happen. He was that person for me that I always had a special spot thing for as I grew up. Recently he told me that he was interested in trying something with a guy which, to my great surprise was thrilled at the thought of possibility as I had completely resigned myself to the reality that everything I thought to myself would be no more than a fantasy as he'd always claimed he was straight.

The day after we are just as close as ever as usual but no mention of the night before, as if it didn't happen.
What I want to know is what course do I take from here? :confused:

I would like to bring it up but I wouldn't know how.

Are you talking about him denying the incident btw?

Thanks I'll try that.

I was also surprised at the amount of enthusiasm he had the whole time. This was spoken through actions though ofc.

Also sorry, there was another friend of mine who was sleeping on my floor at the time in the same room. I don't know if he heard us and he hasn't said anything either :s

Well I confronted him about it and asked how he felt. He just seemed embarrassed and I said I found it hard to speak about too. He said this is awkward and I told him it didn't have to be. He asked me how I felt and I told him I enjoyed it but I'm surprised that it happened. He said he didn't even know how it managed to happen although I'm sure he made the move on me. Finally I asked him if he regretted it, to which he said he just doesn't want our friendship to be ruined etc. I reassured him that he was fine I wouldn't fall out with him or anything.

I agree, I think it will be okay. The whole thing must be quite scary for him.
Thanks

Pretty much the same thing happened again, I think he must feel similarly but probably not comfortable to say much about it yet. Well they say actions speak louder than words

I'm happy to patiently wait for an opportunity to talk with him properly