The guy doesn't really lose that much feeling that I've noticed, it just slows it down. I mean, an orgasm still feels the same, just takes a little more to get there. I don't imagine the girl feels anything different, although a lubed condom will decrease her pain when it starts if she's tight.

can i still feel his orgazm shake if a condom is on or is it less fun?

No, I don't. It may be more sore but that's why lubes are here.

Agree. And that's not bad, it can make orgasm even better.


As lubed penis can.

its secure and i don't think girls feel anything like that....but there are always exceptions

More feeling is taken away from the guy because there is no direct contact between the penis and vaginal walls. When most of the pleasure from sex is stimulated by the natural lubrication of the vaginal secretions along the shaft and head of the penis, yeah. But there is also feeling taken away from the girl, just not as much. Especially when there's a lot more a guy can do to stimulate the girl - massaging her breasts, rubbing her clitoris, etc.

Personally I like it without a condom because I like the skin to skin feeling. I'm on the pill though, so it doesn't make that much of a difference to me whether its there or not, safety-wise.

sex is unfair in general, condoms just further that

Not really.

With or without a condom i only feel like a little bit of a difference

they are so un-sexy, ruines the moment trying to get them out the packet and put them on

Yeah, and having STDs or baby is very sexy
If it ruins a moment you should include it in foreplay - let her put it on your penis or smth like that.

My gf hates them. She's on the pill though so I'm straight

it depends on the condom.
some are "embellished" so that the sensation is improved for both partners.
also, bear in mind that many girls simply cannot have an orgasm through vaginal sex. so while you might feel gypped as the guy, remember that it does feel good for the girl, but not quite enough to make her come.
so at least you guys come. =P