So my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months, it's a very serious relationship but we see each other very little as he studies in another country.
The other day I found out his password and logged on to his facebook. I shouldn't have and I'm so ashamed of checking his messages, but while i was there i found he had written this to one of his friends:
'I almost bagged a sexy fine cougar the other night, she was about 30-35. she was sexyfinesexy but I cant be cheatin on the ol ball n chain.'
i trust him completely and I was thinking about how to approach the subject so I started talking about cheating and relationships and if he's ever been tempted by another girl but he says no. And I sort of believe that, because he's always been so honest with me and we have a very deep connection and we both love each other very much.
so my question is, do I mention it (and say he was logged on to facebook on my comp when he left) or do i just deal with it myself? I kind of want to hear an explanation for it but don't want to admit to invading his privacy like that because I think it's an awful thing to do.
Could it just be guy banter? What could I do about it?:confused:
The other day I found out his password and logged on to his facebook. I shouldn't have and I'm so ashamed of checking his messages, but while i was there i found he had written this to one of his friends:
'I almost bagged a sexy fine cougar the other night, she was about 30-35. she was sexyfinesexy but I cant be cheatin on the ol ball n chain.'
i trust him completely and I was thinking about how to approach the subject so I started talking about cheating and relationships and if he's ever been tempted by another girl but he says no. And I sort of believe that, because he's always been so honest with me and we have a very deep connection and we both love each other very much.
so my question is, do I mention it (and say he was logged on to facebook on my comp when he left) or do i just deal with it myself? I kind of want to hear an explanation for it but don't want to admit to invading his privacy like that because I think it's an awful thing to do.
Could it just be guy banter? What could I do about it?:confused: