There's a girl in a lot, actually all of my classes that I hang out with quite frequently. I see her as a friend and I kind of like her, too. But whenever I try to be nice or there's a situation were she could be nice-ish, she's mean to me. I asked her if I could borrow her calculator for an algebra problem and reached over to grab it, assuming she'd say yes. (she was done with her work and was reading.) And she stabbed me with her pen. It drew blood. That's an extreme instance. At lunch once I sat down next to her and she turned and hit me on the head with her book, pretty darn hard :bitchslap:. My sister and some friends say say this means she likes me, but I think It's genuine anger. Don't ask me what for, cause she's nice sometimes. Like right now I'm borrowing one of her favorite books, she's trusting me with it. but i bet when I bring it back in perfect shape, she'll hit me. I just don't understand. Any ideas what I could do to either (A). Get her to like me or (B). At least understand what she is doing. :confused:

I have asked her in the past. She'll say something like "Maybe it's true hatred." but in a joking tone, you know? I think she's joking but I can't be sure.

well, she's definitely mature. Probably the most mature person in my group of friends. She doesn't laugh at any perverted jokes or during our health unit on condoms and safe sex stuff. but she is funny and jokes about other things.