Okay here it is....
I moved to the other side of the world (from England to New Zealand) and i have been living here for neally 3 years now...... and.... I HATE IT!!!! its horrible..... and I want to go home really badly...
I have numerous things that tie me down to this country my studys (studying A levels at the moment) and i have come to the calculation that it is in my best interests to leave and go home in Feburary of 2011.
I started dating a girl last year in october. So i have been with her 7months. She is enroled in a course at a polytechnic which will take her to december of 2011 to complete her course. But i want to get out of this country ASAP...
I normally have to ask her if she wants to hang out or i normally have to text her first. I do feel like i put most if not all the effort into the relationship. She sometimes doesnt consider my feelings in the decisions that she makes or plans that she makes. But we have talked about this and i have noticed a change in her behaviour. We have talked about possibly moving back together in december to live there toegther and she is also english so she thinks that idea is great.
But if i stay in New Zealand i could lose a year of valuable time at a very important stage in my life. I want to either join the Royal Air Force in England or possibly go to university in England... Also if i was to wait untill december i would just be working in a supermarket full time.... (not a dream job xD)
There is a small possabilty we could end up together in England in Dec 2011 if i go in febuary if i go and then she follows me. But i am unsure if this would work and if the temptations to other boys on her half or girls on my half would play a vitla role in ruining the future we have talked about.
So the question is do i follow my head and go in febuary of 2011 or do i follow my heart and go in december of 2011?
Thanks for all help guys. :confused:
I moved to the other side of the world (from England to New Zealand) and i have been living here for neally 3 years now...... and.... I HATE IT!!!! its horrible..... and I want to go home really badly...
I have numerous things that tie me down to this country my studys (studying A levels at the moment) and i have come to the calculation that it is in my best interests to leave and go home in Feburary of 2011.
I started dating a girl last year in october. So i have been with her 7months. She is enroled in a course at a polytechnic which will take her to december of 2011 to complete her course. But i want to get out of this country ASAP...
I normally have to ask her if she wants to hang out or i normally have to text her first. I do feel like i put most if not all the effort into the relationship. She sometimes doesnt consider my feelings in the decisions that she makes or plans that she makes. But we have talked about this and i have noticed a change in her behaviour. We have talked about possibly moving back together in december to live there toegther and she is also english so she thinks that idea is great.
But if i stay in New Zealand i could lose a year of valuable time at a very important stage in my life. I want to either join the Royal Air Force in England or possibly go to university in England... Also if i was to wait untill december i would just be working in a supermarket full time.... (not a dream job xD)
There is a small possabilty we could end up together in England in Dec 2011 if i go in febuary if i go and then she follows me. But i am unsure if this would work and if the temptations to other boys on her half or girls on my half would play a vitla role in ruining the future we have talked about.
So the question is do i follow my head and go in febuary of 2011 or do i follow my heart and go in december of 2011?
Thanks for all help guys. :confused:
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