hi guys. i would appreciate if you give me advice.
last year my best friend amy started mentioning this guy named "kevin" that her best friend josh introduced her to. she said they were dating and told many elaborate stories to their dates. they all started to contradict each other. example:
date: she said that kevin picked her up in the middle of the night to see a movie.
problems: movie theaters arent open in the middle of the night, she was only 16 she would have been caught by curfew.
date: he took her to stay at a disneyland hotel
problems: i have a disneyland pass so i know the area and i asked which hotel and she couldn't tell me, eventually she said "oh idk i was blindfolded"
issue: she says she called him before, now suddenly she has no contact with him because he "moved" yet they "ran into each other" at kmart.
there's many other stories she's told including saying she slept with him after "knowing him" a couple months.
One morning she came to school with an envelope that josh gave her from kevin. it consisted of printed pictures from the internet of kevin and a love letter. before reading the letter she called me over to read it with her. idk how most people are but i find a love letter to be personal and i would at least read it alone before sharing it with others. the letter was very cheesy and didn't sound like the writing of a guy.
just a couple days ago, another friend of mine told me that she heard amy and josh planning and writing the letter in the hallway before talking about "not writing it in their handwriting or using similar wording because it'd be too obvious"
I feel somewhat hurt that she'd lie to me after she said we're best friends. so i decided to ask her about it. I just asked her have you ever lied to me about anything? she said no, and told me an insignificant truth and asked me if i doubted her honesty, i told her i somewhat did and she began to cry so i didnt get to question her about kevin.
I worry that she's a compulsive liar, I don't want to hurt her but I still want to know.
Thanks for your help sorry it was so long
last year my best friend amy started mentioning this guy named "kevin" that her best friend josh introduced her to. she said they were dating and told many elaborate stories to their dates. they all started to contradict each other. example:
date: she said that kevin picked her up in the middle of the night to see a movie.
problems: movie theaters arent open in the middle of the night, she was only 16 she would have been caught by curfew.
date: he took her to stay at a disneyland hotel
problems: i have a disneyland pass so i know the area and i asked which hotel and she couldn't tell me, eventually she said "oh idk i was blindfolded"
issue: she says she called him before, now suddenly she has no contact with him because he "moved" yet they "ran into each other" at kmart.
there's many other stories she's told including saying she slept with him after "knowing him" a couple months.
One morning she came to school with an envelope that josh gave her from kevin. it consisted of printed pictures from the internet of kevin and a love letter. before reading the letter she called me over to read it with her. idk how most people are but i find a love letter to be personal and i would at least read it alone before sharing it with others. the letter was very cheesy and didn't sound like the writing of a guy.
just a couple days ago, another friend of mine told me that she heard amy and josh planning and writing the letter in the hallway before talking about "not writing it in their handwriting or using similar wording because it'd be too obvious"
I feel somewhat hurt that she'd lie to me after she said we're best friends. so i decided to ask her about it. I just asked her have you ever lied to me about anything? she said no, and told me an insignificant truth and asked me if i doubted her honesty, i told her i somewhat did and she began to cry so i didnt get to question her about kevin.
I worry that she's a compulsive liar, I don't want to hurt her but I still want to know.
Thanks for your help sorry it was so long
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