hello folks.
i'm M, from bangladesh. this is my first post.
this seems to be a nice place for sharing my disastrous problem. i sincerely hope that u guys understand my position and help me out.
im currently going thru a breakup for 2+ months. started going out with her almost a year and half back. we were frends for a few months b4 that and i had asked her out.
at that time ... i was in grade nine and she was in grade ten. she was due to sit for her GCE o levels in may/june 2009. even tho some of our frends protested, we still decided to go out anyway. it was a dream. we both loved each other. implicitly trusted each other. shared both our innermost secrets. talked on the fone for hours. we both fought our own families when they got to know abt us and advised us to break up. both of us, although teenagers, had plans to go for a long-term relationship because of our excellent compatibility.
our relationship went on for almost 16 months like this. no hitch, no problems we couldnt tackle together. but then, one fine day 2 months , shbacke told me she had no future with me and decided to break up. i didnt protest even though i was heartbroken.
just to inform u guys, i am currently 18 and she is a year younger than me even though she studies a grade higher. i am currently sitting for my GCE o levels while she is taking her AS level exams.
her parents are really touchy abt the age issue. they wudnt like their daughter to be with a guy who was less than 3 years her senior, much less a junior guy. on the contrary, my parents are pretty flexible even though they do not encourage me to seek a relation at this age.
folks ... i am facing dire straits. life is pretty much shit. not a day goes that i cant think abt her. i know (from talking to her occasionally) that she feels the same. she still loves me a lot. so do i. even then ... she doesnt want to pursue the relation anymore at this moment. she is NOT cheating on me. trust me, i know
what do i do at this point ? please advise me !
thanks
M
i'm M, from bangladesh. this is my first post.
this seems to be a nice place for sharing my disastrous problem. i sincerely hope that u guys understand my position and help me out.
im currently going thru a breakup for 2+ months. started going out with her almost a year and half back. we were frends for a few months b4 that and i had asked her out.
at that time ... i was in grade nine and she was in grade ten. she was due to sit for her GCE o levels in may/june 2009. even tho some of our frends protested, we still decided to go out anyway. it was a dream. we both loved each other. implicitly trusted each other. shared both our innermost secrets. talked on the fone for hours. we both fought our own families when they got to know abt us and advised us to break up. both of us, although teenagers, had plans to go for a long-term relationship because of our excellent compatibility.
our relationship went on for almost 16 months like this. no hitch, no problems we couldnt tackle together. but then, one fine day 2 months , shbacke told me she had no future with me and decided to break up. i didnt protest even though i was heartbroken.
just to inform u guys, i am currently 18 and she is a year younger than me even though she studies a grade higher. i am currently sitting for my GCE o levels while she is taking her AS level exams.
her parents are really touchy abt the age issue. they wudnt like their daughter to be with a guy who was less than 3 years her senior, much less a junior guy. on the contrary, my parents are pretty flexible even though they do not encourage me to seek a relation at this age.
folks ... i am facing dire straits. life is pretty much shit. not a day goes that i cant think abt her. i know (from talking to her occasionally) that she feels the same. she still loves me a lot. so do i. even then ... she doesnt want to pursue the relation anymore at this moment. she is NOT cheating on me. trust me, i know
what do i do at this point ? please advise me !
thanks
M