Here's the situation. I'm 19 & I have a huge crush on my friend's 42 year old dad. I've always been kind of interested in him, but last weekend was the most time I've ever spent w/ him & it was probably 2 hours at their house. I think he might realize my attraction to him as I can hardly make eye contact w/ him & I blush around him. I also think he might be attracted to me too, because I've caught him staring at me several times & trying to meet my eyes & he smiles at me often. He's very quiet, so he doesn't verbally flirt much. However, my friend told me that before her parents got together, her dad used to stare at her mom often.
I can't pursue this because obviously he's married & my friend's father. My friend's mom is also a 2nd mom to me, so it really would not look good to do something about these feelings.What should I do about this crush? And chances are I'm going to be seeing him a lot this summer, as my friend has made plans already for me & our other close friends to hang out practically every week. We plan on going to the pool & I'm unsure about wearing a bathing suit in front of her dad.
I wanted to mention a few things. I can't TOTALLY put myself in her shoes, as my dad passed away years ago. Secondly, I don't like guys my age & I hardly like guys under the age of 25. I clearly have daddy issues, as you can see. Thirdly, I need mention I have a high sexual attraction to this man as well & him wearing a wifebeater & basketball shorts around me doesn't help much either.
I can't pursue this because obviously he's married & my friend's father. My friend's mom is also a 2nd mom to me, so it really would not look good to do something about these feelings.What should I do about this crush? And chances are I'm going to be seeing him a lot this summer, as my friend has made plans already for me & our other close friends to hang out practically every week. We plan on going to the pool & I'm unsure about wearing a bathing suit in front of her dad.
I wanted to mention a few things. I can't TOTALLY put myself in her shoes, as my dad passed away years ago. Secondly, I don't like guys my age & I hardly like guys under the age of 25. I clearly have daddy issues, as you can see. Thirdly, I need mention I have a high sexual attraction to this man as well & him wearing a wifebeater & basketball shorts around me doesn't help much either.