Hi guys
I'm pretty sure a lot of you read my thread about my mom finding out about me having sex.... but this is about something different.
I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world and I would never want to lose him. But the problem is he's so jealous. Like, beyond the normal level of jealousy. He deleted all the guys phone numbers from my phone, he deleted all the guys from my myspace, and he says that if I ever talk to a guy that isn't part of my family that he will break up with me because to him that's cheating. And he is always trying to come up with a way to find out if I cheated on him. Here in florida school started 2 weeks ago. He says he knows people in the school and that supposably they tell him everything I do. I have talked to guys before in my school but its stuff like hi and bye to a few friends. If he knew that we wouldn't be together right now. Anyways, last friday he told me that one of his friends saw me walking with a guy to class and then I kissed him. That was so not true. I might talk to my friends sometimes but I would never kiss any of them. I would never cheat on him like that. So I'm positive he made that up to see if I confessed something. I told him that wasn't true and he didn't believe me so we had a huge arguement because of something that didn't even happen.
Me and my boyfriend get into at least 1 arguement every single day. I'm so tired of it but no matter how tired of it I am, I can't seem to let him go. He tried breaking up with me a few times already because he knows that it hurts me a lot when we argue. And he says that I don't deserve that kind of stuff. Today we got into an arguement because I told him about a random guy at school asking me for a cookie. And he thought I talked back to him. He told me that he tried to change a lot of times but that he can't control his jealousy. He said that the only way he would completely trust me is if I have his baby or if we get married.
This might make him sound like a bad guy but he is one of the best boyfriends any one could ever had ( if he weren't so jealous) he will never cheat on me, he always does unexpected things to show me that he loves me, he did everything he could to make my family like him, he's always honest, he makes sure I'm always doing good in school so that I never fail, he does anything I ask him to.
So should I stay with him and try to help him control his jealousy, or should I break up with him and try to move on?
I'm pretty sure a lot of you read my thread about my mom finding out about me having sex.... but this is about something different.
I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world and I would never want to lose him. But the problem is he's so jealous. Like, beyond the normal level of jealousy. He deleted all the guys phone numbers from my phone, he deleted all the guys from my myspace, and he says that if I ever talk to a guy that isn't part of my family that he will break up with me because to him that's cheating. And he is always trying to come up with a way to find out if I cheated on him. Here in florida school started 2 weeks ago. He says he knows people in the school and that supposably they tell him everything I do. I have talked to guys before in my school but its stuff like hi and bye to a few friends. If he knew that we wouldn't be together right now. Anyways, last friday he told me that one of his friends saw me walking with a guy to class and then I kissed him. That was so not true. I might talk to my friends sometimes but I would never kiss any of them. I would never cheat on him like that. So I'm positive he made that up to see if I confessed something. I told him that wasn't true and he didn't believe me so we had a huge arguement because of something that didn't even happen.
Me and my boyfriend get into at least 1 arguement every single day. I'm so tired of it but no matter how tired of it I am, I can't seem to let him go. He tried breaking up with me a few times already because he knows that it hurts me a lot when we argue. And he says that I don't deserve that kind of stuff. Today we got into an arguement because I told him about a random guy at school asking me for a cookie. And he thought I talked back to him. He told me that he tried to change a lot of times but that he can't control his jealousy. He said that the only way he would completely trust me is if I have his baby or if we get married.
This might make him sound like a bad guy but he is one of the best boyfriends any one could ever had ( if he weren't so jealous) he will never cheat on me, he always does unexpected things to show me that he loves me, he did everything he could to make my family like him, he's always honest, he makes sure I'm always doing good in school so that I never fail, he does anything I ask him to.
So should I stay with him and try to help him control his jealousy, or should I break up with him and try to move on?