Going to church explains everything. Churches are full of paedophiles who are molesting little boys and girls. Poore girl Don't let her go to church camp for god's sake!

In California we seem to start rather young, at least I started at 10 and so did another of my sisters. I don't really feel that 11 is an inappropriate age as long as she doesn't have any negative feelings towards it, sure its not common but not unheard of either.

What really comes down to is whether you want anything physical from your relationship at this point. What she has experiences doesn't mean you are required to experience it so soon or even that she wants to do it again so soon. Look at what you want from the relationship and discuss where you'd like your relationship to go when she gets back.

Are you joking? 13 and 11 year old relationships are completely ludicrous as is, let alone talking about a physical one. Jesus christ.


Yeah, it's absolutely absurd that she has done oral. But it's in the past, who knows why she did it, hopefully she doesn't go trying to do it again. And for the sake of innocence, if she offers you a blow job, please say no.

A lot of people claim this. What is your reasoning?

Jesus Christ doesn't rule the world of biology or empirical science. :p

Whether to engage or not to engage in sex is one's choice, there is nothing moral or "innocent" about what is the basis of human existence. I didn't think it was improper when I was those ages, I don't think its improper now, it certainly wasn't improper only a few hundred years ago and the only reason you think its ludicrous is because society has developed some odd sense of childlike innocence in the past two centuries.

If she engaged in oral sex it was her choice, if she engages in it further its her choice and you can't decry someone for doing something that is harmful only to your moral well being.

Anyways, I do wonder if you don't intend to have sex till you're married why you engage in relationships as economics and children are the real purposes for them, if you're doing either than you're just having a friendship. You might wish to evaluate what it is you're seeking in relationships at your age.

I'm one of those people. I'm catholic and proud :D. I believe sex is a gift. It is something that on the night I marry my wife I can say I give my body to you. Sex is like a cake. We can either take that cake and just grab it with our hands and stuff our face in it or we can keep than cake and present it to the one we love. I dont believe that people who have premarital sex before marriage are going to go to hell or something but I do stand firm in my opinion.

Anyway back to the yes 11 is really really young. You don't see many 13 yr olds with 11yr olds but the thing is a bunch of random people cant tell you what to do anymore than i can tell bin laden to make out with bush ( i would pay money to see that, and then die of laughter :rofl:) What you need to do is ask yourself questions.
1.)So she had oral? is she still doing it?
2.)How do you feel about it? do you like it? are you slightly grossed out?
3.)Ask her if she's still doing it.
4.)do u like her. do you think the relationship could go somewhere? and do you want it to go somewhere?

good luck. with whatever you plan to do? oh yeah p.s.
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just ask yourself if she is your true love

How do you know she really had oral sex? 11 year olds are known to tell a little white lie. She might like the attention it gives her telling people that and makes her come off as older.

how could she? If she's just a little girl and doing that I'd say just stick around for the sex and get out of there becase she's already shown signs that are obviously immoral at such a young age as that.. imo

Just have fun with her, but don't involve feelings with her. With a girl like that at 11, nothing good can come out of it, except a slut

oh then don't be with her you're too pure for her.