Why does he ask a girl for anal ? I think anal is gays' way of making love/

From what I've heard, it's either pretty awesome or you'll never do it again. There's a high concentration of nerve endings around there, so many find it pleasurable, though very different from vaginal sex. Only way to know if you'll enjoy it is to try it, though maybe do a little testing on your own first.
My recomendation would be if you're not comfortable with the idea, don't do it.
If you do decide to try it out, lots of lube.

I'm curious as to why "sex" and "anal" are considered two different things here. Anal is sex.

:p OK, well it just sounded funny when "we're not planning on having sex / I can has anal?"

Well, it can hurt really bad if done wrong. I'm no expert, so this is just speculation, but you're basically taking an orphis that (when it's relaxed) is quite tight and closed and stretching it to the size of... I'll leave that one to you
The question of how pleasureable you find it really comes down to how bad the pain is (if at all) versus how much, if at all, pleasure you feel.
One thing's for sure: no lube is not an option. If you're a little worried about it hurting, I can promise you that no matter how bad it is for you, it'll be ten times worse without vaseline.
If you want to find out if it's pleasant for you, maybe just try some extent of anal masturbation for now (lube still helpful here). You can just use a finger or find something else (be creative, I've heard of people using sharpies, carrots and even broom handles :/) You don't have to start with anything quite his size, just start yourself out with something safe to use and if you like it, try something a little bigger.
Just make sure you're very careful. If it hurts too much, don't push yourself. Also be careful with what you use: once past the anus, there are fewer nerve endings, so it's possible to cut yourself without knowing, so use something safe and take it easy.

zani95 wrote:

I told him he should use lube, but he was like "nah I'll make it work"

Lube is needed, unless you like pain.

As someone said, it's a yes or no thing on whether you like it. Mec is correct on what you should do for masturbation to see if you will like it.
Also, keep in mind, most of the time, the first time you try it, it will hurt, so don't use the first time you actually do it with him (or masturbating) to decide on if you like it. It takes a while to get used to and see whether you like it or not.

If you do use A LOT of lube! And go slow! Don't rip up your ass!

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And don't pull out to fast!

I personally would NOT do anal..That to me is so gross and its kinda risky for stuff...

I've tried it once. I HATED it. Not my thing.

Friend of mine has a 2 year old son now, for this exact reason.