so me and this girl who i was good friends with were secretly going out for the last 3 weeks
we kept it secret for a few reasons
1 her ex, we didnt want to hurt him
2 the girl i used to like, shes on holiday for ages and well i stoped liking her when i figured out she was just leading me on
3 she moved away to newcastle 2 weeks ago and i move to sheffield in september so we figured we wouldnt officially go out until we have both moved if we both still feel the same way
anyway so earlier today we were talking and she said she didnt think it was gonna work out, she said she can barely handle a normal relationship let alone long distance
we were really good friends before we started to like eachother and she wants us to like pretend none of this happened,
in the week before she left we hung out as much as we could, and i like her more than i have liked anyone in a while, she was my first blowjob, the first girl ive fingered to orgasm, the first girl i licked out and the first girl i gave multiple orgasms to
and to her i was the first guy to give her multiple orgasms, (admittedly she is more experienced than me in that i am a virgin and she isnt)
(oh and im 18 shes 15 but turns 16 in less than a month just so you know)
so anyway i told her that i understood that long distance is difficult and so i dont blame her, and this isnt worth fucking up our friendship over, i asked if there could be another chance for us after ive moved to uni when i will be only an hour away by train and if not i would understand
she said she didnt think there would be another chance
the thing is although most of me thinks that, theres another part of me that really doesnt understand and this is the part of me that wants to get on a train right now go to her knowing that she still likes me a bit and try to win her back and tell her that we can make it work
this is the part of me that awakens whenever i get dumped and never does me any good but i always listen to it, it tells me i can get her back and that any cost is worth getting her back
anyway this really was just for me to vent the slight annoyance building in me head and heart right now, coz i know ive just got to give up on her
but any opinions would be great, thanks in advance, and sorry for the long post
we kept it secret for a few reasons
1 her ex, we didnt want to hurt him
2 the girl i used to like, shes on holiday for ages and well i stoped liking her when i figured out she was just leading me on
3 she moved away to newcastle 2 weeks ago and i move to sheffield in september so we figured we wouldnt officially go out until we have both moved if we both still feel the same way
anyway so earlier today we were talking and she said she didnt think it was gonna work out, she said she can barely handle a normal relationship let alone long distance
we were really good friends before we started to like eachother and she wants us to like pretend none of this happened,
in the week before she left we hung out as much as we could, and i like her more than i have liked anyone in a while, she was my first blowjob, the first girl ive fingered to orgasm, the first girl i licked out and the first girl i gave multiple orgasms to
and to her i was the first guy to give her multiple orgasms, (admittedly she is more experienced than me in that i am a virgin and she isnt)
(oh and im 18 shes 15 but turns 16 in less than a month just so you know)
so anyway i told her that i understood that long distance is difficult and so i dont blame her, and this isnt worth fucking up our friendship over, i asked if there could be another chance for us after ive moved to uni when i will be only an hour away by train and if not i would understand
she said she didnt think there would be another chance
the thing is although most of me thinks that, theres another part of me that really doesnt understand and this is the part of me that wants to get on a train right now go to her knowing that she still likes me a bit and try to win her back and tell her that we can make it work
this is the part of me that awakens whenever i get dumped and never does me any good but i always listen to it, it tells me i can get her back and that any cost is worth getting her back
anyway this really was just for me to vent the slight annoyance building in me head and heart right now, coz i know ive just got to give up on her
but any opinions would be great, thanks in advance, and sorry for the long post
we all got troubles, we all got pain, we try to hang onto love, try to keep it the same, we all got issues, i put mine in my songs, sometimes im not fine but im carrying on