Tell that mofo to sit the fux down, and explain what is goin onnn.

Just make him talk to you. I mean 3 years is a long time for that age. And you prob feel pretty comfortable around him. So just bring it up. I mean do you still like him? Do you think he still likes you?

its always like that, i mean from what ive had. And you just cant seem to get it out once in a while. And then the other person is busy, and so the other person thinks you lost interest, witch probably didnt happen, not it cant, but maybe they didnt.

And so there are mini fights. And yeah.. thats how it gores down.

The best way to go about it is if you actually just sat down and talked to him. If you feel like this is a serious issue, address it to him. He'll either understand and change or he just won't. Ask him what's up.

It seems to me like hes conflicted with something. I would just flat out ask him what his deal is.

If you are having troubles finding the rigth words. Say something like, 'Hey, we need to talk about something important. Lately, I noticed you are bit disturned. Is everything alright?'

If he ignores that, then be normal and let it go for 2/3 days. Even after that he still behaves odd then, ask again and this time sound bit more serious and worried.

I hope you two sort things out.

Wow. This principle is really that simple.

If a guy all of a sudden starts acting weird, ask him why he's acting weird.
If a guy all of a sudden starts acting unusual, ask him why he's acting unusual.
If a guy all of a sudden starts acting like a dick, ask him why he's acting like a dick.
If a guy all of a sudden starts acting [synonym], ask him, you get it, but also ask him why the sudden change.

If a guy that you think likes you is randomly rude or mean to you, ask him why that too.

How else will you figure him out?

I AGREE WITH WHAT assassinrow says. YOu two have been together for quite some time. But statistically most teenage boys just date some girls for sex because the girl feels uncomfortable or unwanted because either bad relationships or father left them and the girl will feel that "if i dont hav.e sex with him he will leave and i dont want that to happen." But since you have been togehter soo long it does not seem like that is the problem. Just tlak to him and if doesnt let you break up with him it sounds like you are sweet and dont deserve to be treated like that. He could be feeling uncomfortabloe about having sex with you

3 years and you can't even sit down with him and talk about a problem? Just sit him down and simply ask him how he feels about you. If it's been that long chances are he might actually be getting bored of you, but he may have some family issues that you don't know about. You should always find the source of the problem before making any assumptions that make you look like the bad one.

if you acctually think that its the sexual part. Do something different and, really pay attention to his reactions.

Also, its normal for guys mood to change. Maybe start going up to him and just talk to him. You could confront him about whats going on but, it could go bad

it is really upsetting me when he wont achknowlage im there.
i really dont want to loose him coz he is the best bf ive had its just this last few week.
we are sexually active and im begining to wonder if he is bored with me and wants someone else

Tell him these exact things and see how he reacts

Well since you guys have been together for 3 years, maybe he is getting too comfortable and needs some excitement. Try something new together, like take a fun class together or learn a new instrument or art class together. Having a similar interest and new challenge you can go through together can really help refresh a relationship.
Maybe he doesnt even realize he is being so hot and cold with you. Talking to him may help, but if he doesnt know he is doing it, he may not understand your concern fully. So dont nag him about it or complain...be positive and try to improve the situation proactively. Dont point out all of the negatives, this will just give him more reason to want to stray!
Good luck!
GirltoGirlTalk

After being together for 3 yrs you should be able to sit down and talk to him about anything, if you can't then there seriously is something wrong with your communication in the relationship and it needs to be addressed.

i think be ur slef and just talk to him, sud be no probs